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Hi malvika,now I await for your email to get to know u further more👌

After reading here today I have a thought you talked abt having a strong true inner circle who are your rock but how abt the first innermost circle which it happens to be your family of siblings n on top of tht if u already have 2 elder sis one doesnt even think of other ppl then your siblinfs as the most closest innercircle whom you can trust ,but irony of life tht is not the case where one of your sis id jealous of you cant see you growing n cant stop herself from bitching abt you at any given chance..

How do you be away from such innermost circle who doesnt feel happy for u nor wants best for u ??

If you can share your thoughts when where one wants to draw a boundary with their sibling but than thers more chaos n bitterness with parents etc for opting to maintain your distance with your sis.

Love your thoughts as always..💃

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Mar 31·edited Mar 31

Good to hear u went through with ur surgery and ur recovering, praying for your speedy recovery.

My week my hectic AF, I'm gearing up for my CA finals due next month, but in my 5 min break it's good to catch up on these letters as I'm away from insta and other social media during my prep time.

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Hey mals! I love you girl. I have been following you ever since you started your YT channel. I can relate to you so much about the circle philosophy. I have always had 2-3 three friends in my inner circle but those are like my ride or die. It is so important to have one true friend rather than a big group to have a peaceful and content life.

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Ahh im loving these.

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Hey Mals! Glad that you are recovering from the surgery. Love to see you email in my inbox.

I feel so good to read your emails and specially your food recommendations.

Thank you for sharing about life.

Lots of love to you and Abby. :)

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Hi Malvika!

Love reading your email!

After reading the entire email and while going through the questions i was only thinking about my Family, sadly they are the ones causing all the drama, making me cry everyday, creating tough situations for me where i feel like running away from home and feel so happy and light when i am outside the home... the only Sundays when am not working gives me anxiety because its tough to stay inside the home with the family .

I have been thinking to stay away from them from a longer time and they are the ones who is not letting me stay away and they have no idea the mental traumas they are giving me everyday, trying to escape and gathering courage everyday to live away from home.

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Hi Malvika!

Love reading your email!

After reading the entire email and while going through the questions i was only thinking about my Family, sadly they are the ones causing all the drama, making me cry everyday, creating tough situations for me where i feel like running away from home and feel so happy and light when i am outside the home... the only Sundays when am not working gives me anxiety because its tough to stay inside the home with the family .

I have been thinking to stay away from them from a longer time and they are the ones who is not letting me stay away and they have no idea the mental traumas they are giving me everyday, trying to escape and gathering courage everyday to live away from home.

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Hey Malzz,

Glad that your surgery went well and you are recovering 😊

I wanted to take a moment to express my deepest appreciation for your weekly open diary entries. Your candid and insightful reflections have become a source of inspiration and comfort for me.

As someone who looks up to you not only as an influencer but also as a trusted friend and source of guidance, I am continually amazed by your willingness to share your thoughts, experiences, and emotions with authenticity and grace.

Thanks for reminding us, no matter the size of our circle, it’s the meaningful relations that count. I always had a huge friend circle back in school and college days but overtime, it’s become way smaller, mainly due to difference in opinions, values, interests etc. But no complains, because in my close knit circle now, we shares deep emotional support, are kinder to one another, communicate better and share similar values and ambitions.

Once again, I am very grateful for being a part of your community Malzz.

Thank you for the light you bring into the world.

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HI MALZZ🩷

As you mentioned about ur friend from teenage I too not much recently but experienced the same thing...I felt her to be cool and prioritized her so much in my life that I lost my true self only to realize that she is the only reason to cause drama in my life and make me feel lonely....she instilled insecurities in me that I never knew off rather cared off....I was down mentally and physically both...and I realized who my true peeps are while admitted in the hospital...I understood that I gave my best for the people who didn't cared about my feelings and in the process they were making me lose my genuine friends...indeed what you said is correct....and I am glad I have 2 -3 people to call of my own...It should be QUALITY OVER QUANTITY AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND...glad to realize this at such an early stage of life!

Lastly love you a lot...and Abby baby too!

She's so freaking adorable 🩷🥺🧿

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Amazing mals

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I watched Fighter and loved it and looking forward to watch the 2nd one.

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💕💕

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